- January 23rd, 2007, 2:24 am
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Well, I kinda made a certain professor cry.
He was trying to tell us that he would not allow his daughter to marry a Christian from a non-Christian family. In essence, he was arguing that Christians from non-Christian families could not possibly be a good marital match for those who are. This was first on his 'list' for his daughter, too, not like down a bit.
I couldn't help myself, and I raised my hand and asked rather directly, "Are you saying Christians from non-Christian families are not as good as those who are?" He just gaped at me. Then about half the class immediately raised their hands. There was a girl who I knew was on the debate team (beautiful black lady, but I don't remember her name), who stood up and basically started reciting Scripture on how that would not be God's view on the subject. She was brilliant. The prof very obviously got tears in his eyes, and then turned around to the board and started very loudly talking about the lesson.
I don't want to be mean - that's not who I am. And I hope that situation opened his (and maybe others') eyes that day. I come from a non-Christian family. I got saved in 1993 (this happened about 5 years later). I saw a lot of Christians from Christian families who were spoiled and basically just letting their parents live their spiritual lives for them, and this wasn't the first time I had seen people at LU snub someone who didn't have some sort of big family 'connection'. My best friend at LU, who is from one of those big name families, once told me "I like new Christians better. They actually care." She didn't mean that long-time Christians couldn't be, but she saw in her family how complacency was the rule more than devotion.
One of the saddest things I think I've ever heard was a girl who was in all sorts of leadership positions in the church, sang almost every week, and someone asked her what she did to keep burning spiritually, and she said "Well, my dad does that for me."