forbidden wrote:prototype wrote:This is a message board and this is what we do. We debate things. We have differences of opinions. Call me a bad dad, but my children would not be following him on Twitter - period (If they were even on it). But they could have followed the past 10 or so QB's for us. I'm not trying to beat on the kids talent - he looks like a real get when you watch him play, his level of competition, etc..., but that's not my concern. My concern was - he doesn't look the part to me right now and I thought he would come in ready... Don't give me the Manziel comparisons. He's not that good, nor will he have the offensive weapons Manziel had. I just have seen to many hyped players come to Liberty in multiple sports that we all thought were going to be the next great thing and they sizzled out quickly, not because lack of talent, but for reason's off the field/court or because the atmosphere was such a shock to them.
Do I hope he becomes the greatest QB in our history - oh yeah - I will be the loudest one at the game chanting "BUCK-SHOT, BUCK-SHOT". Just not that naive to see his twitter account and be celebrating it... It threw some yellow flags up for me...
And, let me PROMISE you this much, if you THINK you are going to be able to stop your kids from following a certain type on twitter, snap, IG or whatever then YOU are not only FOOLING yourself your making your kids do it anyways. I have two of the best kids in the world, IMO one that coincidentally goes to LU and did I stop him from following things just because I didn't like it, no and I knew I couldn't or it wouldn't be in best interest long term, did I MONITOR, yes, and he has come out pretty dang good, for my lil princess who is not 15, only thing I can tell you is good luck, and unless your gonna put a burka on her and shield her from the entire world it wont do you any good. Monitor yes, ban nah cuz it aint gonna work, unless you wont allow them to have phones, cpu's tablets or the like, I chortle audibly.
I understand that. I'm really not that much of a prude. My kids, I have 4 by the way, 14 to 4, aren't locked in a room. I'm not one of those parents that won't let their kids go to movies above a G Rating. My kids have iPads and iphones (no service until they get a job that pays for it) and I have even brought them to MMA events (Stupid example, but just trying to say - I'm not some over protective father that shelters his kids). BUT - I do also monitor my kids activity online - I get every text, every email, notified when they download every app. And if one person on their text thread curses or puts up an inappropriate comment/picture - you know what happens? - my kids will tell me and block them themselves. Why? because they fortunately don't like it, and they know that if I find out - they will lose it for a really long time. Then hopefully, when they move out at 17-18, they will know more, and realize that who they hang around matters. Then all I can do is pray for them. But I have a pretty good feeling, like yours, my oldest boys will be just fine - they already seem to be driven to be successful in life and know what the consequences of bad decisions can lead to.
My 13 year old is driven wants to play college lacrosse, and you better believe as his father(agent) I will do my best to keep his online profile as clean as possible.