theoneandonly wrote:Im all against PDA, and true this couple has been ridiculous. I personally dont see anything wrong with the fact that they have talked about marriage. Yes its ridiculous that they matched clothes, but i dont see anything worth saying they arent going to make it? When you know you know, right? And i dont know, im not old like a majority of posters, but i dont really see anything wrong with a couple sitting on the same chair or sharing ipod headphones while sitting somewhere.
I only make the prediction of failure because of my experience at Liberty from the mid to late 90's. Most couples that I was around at Liberty that felt they needed to "literally" be one person (share one chair, share headphones, share food, share classes, share laundry, lay on top of each other while doing "devotions", constantly touching each other to the point of making everyone around them uncomfortable, share every waking minute around each other, etc.), rarely ever made it long term. Their relationships became such an outward show, there wasn't much depth to them as a couple. The vast majority of couples, from my days at LU, that felt that they must have their hands all over each other, at every opportunity, never made it long term. Most ended BITTERLY. I like when people bring up marriage, because it usually scares one and the other is ALL over it. It really tests their love IMO.
I don't want to poo poo anyone's relationship, but I just saw a pattern with similar behavior that seemed to always end in disaster. Often to the point that one or both were deeply wounded. I'm sure there are exceptions though.