scuzdriver wrote:I loved it all as a younger person. Yes even at LU. I decided before I got married that I loved it too much, which couldn't end up well. So I quit. Haven't drank for at least 18 yrs. I can honestly say that I don't miss it at all. Also, I didn't want that to be a stumbling block for not only others, but mainly my kids. They are always watching. I don't tell them it's wrong, I just want them to know that life is just as good without it.
That is well put. I remember when I came home one summer from Liberty, my friends and I were 19 years old. We all decided to go up the Canada (I live in Detroit) to go to the casino. The legal age to be considered an adult in Canada is 19. You can drink, gamble, etc. My dad is a minister, and I kept many of these type trips from his knowledge. When we walked into the casino, within the first 10 minutes, a friend of mine stuck a $20 bill in the dollar slot machine. On the second pull, he hit for $1700. When I got home, I just had to tell my dad. He listened to the whole story and then asked, "What kind of affect do you think that will have on him?" I told him that he took the money, and gambled no more. He bought us dinner. I basically said he was really cool about it. He then told me, "You never know what winning that money may do to him or those other guys around him." 10+ years later that guy hasn't had a problem with gambling (I'll bet he hasn't been to a casino more than once or twice since), but you never know what affect it could have on him or those around him.
I think the same could be said with drinking. It didn't get control of my life, but I have two friends who have 2-3 DUI's each and it has seriously affected their lives. They began this addiction with me drinking along side, and I have to live with the fact that I have a piece of the beginning of a destructive habit in their lives. Would they have done it without me? I'm pretty darn sure they would have. I just have to live with the fact that I helped that process in their lives. I believe it is important to look at whose lives we could be affecting when making choices like drinking/smoking/etc. Children often changes adults thinking on that .