- February 14th, 2007, 7:44 pm
#60806
ATrain wrote:I kind of view it like the strict/overprotecive father vs. the more lenient father vs. the loose father. One allows his daughter to date at the age of 13. The other at the age of 16. Another at the age of 21. Although there are good arguments that each father is wiser than the next, it is not a right or wrong thing. I wouldn't say one father is going to screw up his kids more than another. I definitely would be closer to the middle father, but it doesn't mean that my kid is better off than the other two kids with their fathers. It is just a difference in rules. If the father is instilling biblical values into the child, as they age they will be better off. They are not necessarily going to be better off with strict curfews, dating rules, music rules etc, but I think they are better off than being on the extreme of the other side. BJU chooses to be strict on its students. How is that different from a parent that does the same? I have a kid in my school that has no tv in his home. He is not allowed to listen to music with any type of beat. I think his parents go way overboard. He still is a good kid and will probably end up being a very good Christian man. Now are his parents sinning? I wouldn't say they are, they still teach him the bible. It is a legalistic version of the bible, but I'd rather see that than the parents that little to no rule system set up for their child. I think that is my view of BJU. I think there is a better way to run their university, but I can think of thousands of worse ways to run a university.People at BJU are happy to follow the rules.People there are happy to follow the rules? LOL...Kel, you've made my day