- November 21st, 2006, 1:35 am
#42750
Time for me to chime in here (and every cringes because they think it's going to spark some huge debate with Tally).
First off, let me say I love my school. There are quite a few things I don't like, but I love my school.
Secondly, I'm one of the new breed of LU students. We're the type of kids that are nowhere near the "right wing uber-conservative" that LU is known for. We come from public schools. We like to have fun. We like to be able to live our lives as college students and know that we're not perfect but we are forgiven. We came to LU to be in a Christian environment, not to be judged (something I'll get to later). We love the fact that we can screw up and have people there to support us and help us through the problems.
There are some things in the Liberty Way that I don't like. However, I understand why they're there. I don't have a problem with someone going out and having a beer with a burger while they watch a football game or a glass of wine with a nice dinner if they're 21. With that being said, I know that kids our age don't have the discipline to cut it off like that and the complete ban on alcohol is good for those people.
Curfew, rated R movies, kissing - all of that stuff I think is stupid. Just don't get caught. RAs will even tell you that.
Dress code - it's better than it was. I know that. Personally, I don't have a problem with it. I got used to it and it wasn't that big of a deal. The only thing I would like to see changed is for them to allow guys to wear nice khaki shorts with a collared shirt. If you wear shorts, you have to have a collared shirt (no hoodie). Girls are allowed to have skirts and capris, I just think this would be the male equivalent of that.
I said we'd get back to the judging and here is where I'm going to do it. There are people at Liberty that are so overly religious and self righteous that they judge every person for everything they do and if you screw up they will condemn you and write you up as a demon kid who's going to Hell. There are a lot of these people. There are people who are overly religious and take things way beyond where they should go. If you asked them what they wanted for dinner they would say they should pray about it and wait for God to let them know. If He didn't give them a sign, then He was telling them they should fast that meal. Ok, I exagerated a little bit.
There are a lot of kids who have been home schooled and everything their entire life has been about them. They live in a complete "me" world. Most of these kids are the same ones I mentioned as being judgement in the last paragraph, but they never do anything wrong. I want to punch them in the face.
Spiritually things can be insanely hard here. There have been many times in the semester and a half that I've been here where I felt farther away from God than I have my entire life. You are around religious events so much here that sometimes you just have to step back and figure things out for yourself. In a lot of cases people will make you feel like dirt for things that you believe or the way that you are comfortable worshipping. There are a ton of times where it feels like you aren't living up to what you should be. There are a lot of times where you have no clue where God is taking you and it's very frustrating. It's more tempting to slip at Liberty than it is at a state school.
Liberty girls are, well, a different breed. We'll leave it at that.
I've said what I didn't like. Remember how I said I loved my school? Here's why:
Teachers pray in class. Teachers genuinely care about you and how you're doing. One of my professors told our class that if any of us couldn't make it home for Thanksgiving to let him know and we could have Thanksgiving dinner with him and his family. You're not getting that at another school. If you have a problem with anything in your life whether it be school, girls, money, spiritually, family, or whatever, all you have to do is walk into one of your professors offices and they will help you through it. Most schools have a few people that will do this. Liberty has an entire facutly.
The chance to grow in your faith is here. Remember how I said I've never felt further away from God? I've also never felt closer at times. If you keep an open mind about things, and figure out why you believe what you believe, things are awesome. If you take a step back from everything and get away from it all for a little bit, it becomes clear how amazing God is. Whether it's just taking a drive down the parkway or sitting at the park or sitting in your room with the lights off, make sure you have time to get away from everything and clear your head. That's when you grow the most.
Some of the people you meet will be the coolest people you will ever know in your life. At this point in time, I still don't have a solid "core" group of a friends. I know a ton of people that are amazing but I'm still looking for that "core" group. Part of growing up that is fun is finding the people to be in that "core" group. Shrug off the douchebags and keep an open mind about people and you'll have a ton of fun. The kids that you may have thought were "nerds" in high school will turn out to be hilarious and a ton of fun to be around.
There's nothing more fun than Division I sports. Period. There just isn't.
People say there's nothing to do in Lynchburg, but those people are just boring idiots who don't know what they're talking about, or they don't know how to create fun. People don't realize there are parts of Lynchburg outside of Wards Road and Candler's Mountain (the two main roads around campus in case you didn't know). The main things we have are movie theaters, bowling alleys, putt putt, and go carts. There are also a bunch of parks, disc golf, the river, the mountains, and you're close to whatever you could want to do. People don't realize how fun capture the flag is, or dodgeball, or anything involving water guns/balloons. Make your own fun and college will be amazing.
If you're close-minded, stuck up, and/or judgemental then please, find another college. However, if you're open-minded, ready to have good, clean fun, and open to knew things, then I'll personally welcome you to the mountain.
(I'm growing up, aren't I?)