jcmanson wrote:I didn't say I wasn't impressed with who you are, I said I wasn't impressed with how you responded to the criticism received from others on here. I'm not taking up for them, some of them said stuff they shouldn't have. I only know you from what you have said on here and other places online. So I don't have alot to go on to really know who you are.
Who I really am is someone who's been to church for 15 years, and has fallen away several times, but have come back every time. This time, it's been a bit longer. My parents and friends always tell me to not worry about what other people say at church, and to go for God. It's good advice, but it's kind of hard to focus on worshipping God at churches, where you can hear people whispering bull crap about you behind your back, spreading lies. My husband I left our former church, finally, because more than one person was spreading rumors like the reason we didn't wait to get married is because I was pregnant, and that we both had dropped out of school, etc. None of which was true. Life is already full of drama... you'd think church would be the one place to go to leave it all behind. I guess I was wrong.
I'm a pretty nice person-- until you cross my path the wrong way, like earlier posts. I make friends easily, and get along with almost everyone. I respect differing opinions, as long as people know why they disagree, and don't just point out the invalidity of the opposing side. That's pretty much my only pet peeve. Well, that and people who act like they're better than everyone else.
As you've seen, I do have quite a mouth on me, but that's usually only when I get really mad.
I'm not a bad person... I just have bad days.
I'm sorry if I've offended you or anyone else on here. I never meant for this to turn into World War III via message board.