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By BJWilliams
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#112762
having been on this board for a couple years, Ive seen a lot of things. One thing that really kinda bothers me is the fact that in many discussions, I will offer some very valid points, but in large part they get ignored. Now I can understand that happening once in a while because I know I say some pretty stupid stuff, but even so, I feel like I make some pretty valid points, but its like no one really cares what I think. Now if my opinions really do not matter that much then maybe Im in the wrong place.
By LUconn
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#112763
ha, you created a thread entirely about yourself and it's not in jest. You have to have someone disagree with you to get a response BJ. People don't waste their time posting things like "I agree". Well, everybody but one poster who will remain nameless.
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By BJWilliams
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#112764
I much rather jest about myslef in person my friend. All Im lookin for is that my thoughts are actually acknowledged...maybe not agreed with, but at least acknowledged
By LUconn
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#112767
It's just pretty egotistical to start a thread demanding that your posts be acknowledged or you'll stop posting. But if you need the social reassurance, we can follow every one of your posts with something like, "your post has been read and acknowledged".
By HenryGale
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#112768
BJWilliams wrote:I much rather jest about myslef in person my friend. All Im lookin for is that my thoughts are actually acknowledged...maybe not agreed with, but at least acknowledged
Your post has been read and acknowledged.
By thepostman
#112773
BJ...come on now...are you serious??

I know you mean well with this thread, but seriously....I don't know how many times I have posted something and nobody has really responded to it...thats not a bad thing...calm down man...we aren't out to get you...don't worry
By cheerbren
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#112779
I thought this just happened to me because I am just a girl :wink: , but I know if you are arguing then you are agreeing and they don't respond.
By SuperJon
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#112790
BJ, c'mon dude. I've posted over 11,000 times and half the time mine go without people saying anything about it. It's nothing against you.
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By adam42381
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#112805
BJWilliams wrote:having been on this board for a couple years, Ive seen a lot of things. One thing that really kinda bothers me is the fact that in many discussions, I will offer some very valid points, but in large part they get ignored. Now I can understand that happening once in a while because I know I say some pretty stupid stuff, but even so, I feel like I make some pretty valid points, but its like no one really cares what I think. Now if my opinions really do not matter that much then maybe Im in the wrong place.
:violin
By TDDance234
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#112817
You can't be serious.
By jmdickens
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#112820
SuperJon wrote:BJ, c'mon dude. I've posted over 11,000 times and half the time mine go without people saying anything about it. It's nothing against you.

that's because you open your smart*** mouth :D
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By BJWilliams
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TDDance234 wrote:You can't be serious.
As serious as cancer bro. (with apologies to those of you that actually have or have had cancer) I feel completely ignored around here most of the time. Now when I have a prayer request I know that I'm being prayed for which means a lot, but I want to at least know that if I make a point in a discussion that it at least is acknowledged. I mean I'm not asking for folks to necessarily post after me and just say they agree to make me feel better. I just want to know that what Im saying at least is factored into the discussion.
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By flamesfilmguy
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#112842
come on guys... cut him some slack! if he posted what has on this board on other boards.... those other boards would be doing... :cartwheels :cartwheels :cartwheels

Sorry BJ i had too....
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By Purple Haize
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#112854
Did someone post something here? I must hav emissed it :D
By thepostman
#112873
BJWilliams wrote:
TDDance234 wrote:You can't be serious.
As serious as cancer bro. (with apologies to those of you that actually have or have had cancer) I feel completely ignored around here most of the time. Now when I have a prayer request I know that I'm being prayed for which means a lot, but I want to at least know that if I make a point in a discussion that it at least is acknowledged. I mean I'm not asking for folks to necessarily post after me and just say they agree to make me feel better. I just want to know that what Im saying at least is factored into the discussion.
dude...you have to stop this...more times then not people don't respond to me...the only times they do is if they disagree with me....so as I said before, its not a bad thing that people don't respond to every single post that you post on here....

I don't know how to say it more clearly to you....if i didn't know you then I would probably just keep my mouth shut and roll my eyes...

but I do know you...and I do know sometimes you get these thoughts in your head that people are ignoring you...its not the fact at all...just go with the flow BJ and don't be so sensitive...
By TDDance234
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#112874
This thread is destined for disaster.. BJ, you don't need agreement from anyone to voice your opinion. This is a forum, which exist to share your feelings on the specific subject. It's threads like these that cause people to not take you serious.
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By BJWilliams
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#112879
I'm sorry...it was just frustrating seeing all the craziness that ensued from this past weekend and with all the strong opinions being laid out I just wanted to get in on it.
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By RubberMallet
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#112884
ahahahahahhahaha

bj williams = Image
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By BJWilliams
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#112895
I had that one coming
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By RubberMallet
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#112906
are you 10?

what kind of egomaniac are you?
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By BJWilliams
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#112913
Actually no...and really I don't mean to be so flamingly narcissistic. A go through periods at times where I have some negative thoughts running through my head and usually stuff like this thread results.
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By RubberMallet
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#112921
well then stop being stupid
By thepostman
#112925
the more I read your posts mallet...the more you make me laugh....


a thread like this just is asking for it....
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By BJWilliams
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#112928
Well sorry man...there is more to me than I'm willing to share right now but itd certainly offer up a lot of answers as to why I do stuff like open a thread like this as a cry for attention (which thanks to you I'm getting)
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By RubberMallet
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#112929
thepostman wrote:the more I read your posts mallet...the more you make me laugh....


a thread like this just is asking for it....
thats because i'm mafacking hilarious...

on that note: guys i'm funny. i say funny things and work hard to think them up for you. all i want is an occasional "haha" or "lmao"....many times my humorous quips go without even an acknowledgment from you guys....sometimes i don't even know why i waste my comical brilliance on you dopes
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