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We're not very nice to new people

Posted: May 23rd, 2008, 9:12 am
by LUconn
I think we run a lot of people off. Somtimes you can tell folks start posting just to stir up trouble. They deserve the flogging that we give them. But I think we've had some legitimate posters that have chimed in with first time posts and we jump at the chance to tell that that they're stupid if we disagree and make them feel bad about posting here. Why is that? Just messageboard mentality?




We need some new blood around here or it's going to start to be exclusive. More so than it already is.

Posted: May 23rd, 2008, 9:27 am
by thepostman
I agree....I know of several people who won't post on here because they think everybody is a bunch of jerks...and we really are jerks..haha

Posted: May 23rd, 2008, 9:29 am
by Hold My Own
Agreed, some are unable to respectfully disagree with people who have a different opinion....


We're not always right ya know! Shocker I know but seriously!

Posted: May 23rd, 2008, 9:50 am
by jcmanson
You mean we’re exclusive now?

Posted: May 23rd, 2008, 10:14 am
by Rocketfan
Hold My Own wrote:Agreed, some are unable to respectfully disagree with people who have a different opinion....


We're not always right ya know! Shocker I know but seriously!
Yeah we are mean....speaking of that can someone take out the "hold my own" tat off AI's arm and replace it with Tanstate......

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 8:54 am
by Stevev
LUCONN wrote
I think we run a lot of people off. Somtimes you can tell folks start posting just to stir up trouble. They deserve the flogging that we give them. But I think we've had some legitimate posters that have chimed in with first time posts and we jump at the chance to tell that that they're stupid if we disagree and make them feel bad about posting here. Why is that? Just messageboard mentality?

I don't mind posters on here disagreeing with me but rude behavior and name called (like getting called an idiot or stupid) is uncalled for and the worst thing about it all this all takes place on a website affiliated with a Christian university. Quite a few of these new posters have legitimate points and I can see that but a select few get too personally involved and feel they are entitled to insult the newcomers just because they are actively involved and feel like they are always right and the newby's are always wrong and there opinion isn't important. My posting time on this site has been cutback substantially due to all of the rude behavior of a select few and unfortunately, before they arrived on here things were great. But it only take a few bad apples to spoil the whole bunch. Hopefully things will get better in the future with the turnover in students and those who post here.

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 10:03 am
by SuperJon
Don't beat around it. Just say you don't like me. I'm ok with it. It's not going to change how I do things when someone says something completely idiotic though.

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 10:56 am
by Sly Fox
I'm all for the discourse but I agree that we have developed a rather harsh mentality not only on newbies but just about everyone lately. This place is starting to have a bitter taste to it that I really hope we lose. I know summertime tends to be more argumentative without anything really to talk about until football camp starts. But that doesn't mean we can't make our opinions known without belittling everyone else. Let the chips fall where they may once you make your points.

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 12:56 pm
by TylerBakersGonnaBGreat
Hold My Own wrote:

We're not always right ya know!

Psh...Speak for yourself idiot... Thats the dumbest thing I have ever heard, just stop posting on here.

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 1:49 pm
by BJWilliams
Pot...Id like to introduce you to my friend kettle.

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 2:07 pm
by TylerBakersGonnaBGreat
Nevermind HMO... I Have suddenly changed my mind... I found a dumber one... My apologies :P

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 7:29 pm
by Schfourteenteen
.......there are no words

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 7:59 pm
by BJWilliams
Well TBGBG, I think youve been hammered for some of the stuff youve said, and heck, Ive been hammered PLENTY for stuff Ive said for what its worth

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 8:50 pm
by TylerBakersGonnaBGreat
Yeah I was just giving HMO a hard time

Posted: June 8th, 2008, 11:00 pm
by Hold My Own
BJWilliams wrote:Well TBGBG, I think youve been hammered for some of the stuff youve said, and heck, Ive been hammered PLENTY for stuff Ive said for what its worth
TylerBakersGonnaBGreat wrote:Yeah I was just giving HMO a hard time

hmmm...I give you 24 hours

Posted: June 9th, 2008, 2:29 pm
by Schfourteenteen
Hold My Own wrote:
BJWilliams wrote:Well TBGBG, I think youve been hammered for some of the stuff youve said, and heck, Ive been hammered PLENTY for stuff Ive said for what its worth
TylerBakersGonnaBGreat wrote:Yeah I was just giving HMO a hard time

hmmm...I give you 24 hours
Ill take the under

Posted: July 28th, 2008, 11:49 am
by LUconn
I just somewhat made a reference to this in another thread, but this is prefect for the 101 forum.


This is a great description of ff members upon seeing a new member from Tommy Boy:
Tommy: That's nice, you look like a Helen. Helen, we're both in sales. Let me tell you why I suck as a sales man. Let's say I go into a guy's office, let's say he's even remotely interested in buying something. Well then I get all excited. I'm like Jojo the idiot circus boy with a pretty new pet. Now the pet is my possible sale. Hello there pretty little pet, I love you. And then I stoke it, and I pet it, and I massage it. Hehe I love it, I love my little naughty pet, you're naughty. And then I take my naughty pet and I go
[makes ripping noises as he tears apart the roll]
Tommy: Uuuuuuh. I killed it. I killed my sale. And that's when I blow it. That's when people like us have gotta forge ahead, Helen. Am I right?

Posted: July 28th, 2008, 12:08 pm
by Hold My Own
Some where Barrakandroll or whatever her name is keeps looking at this thread and sobbing while shaking her head yes

Posted: July 28th, 2008, 12:14 pm
by Fumblerooskies
Hold My Own wrote:Some where Barrakandroll or whatever her name is keeps looking at this thread and sobbing while shaking her head yes
She brought that on herself.

Posted: July 28th, 2008, 12:31 pm
by Hold My Own
Oh theres no doubt...I will sleep well tonite!

Not nice

Posted: April 16th, 2009, 10:39 am
by jcmanson
Hold My Own wrote:no kidding...we really do need that ignore button...its either the eye roll or the emoticon overdose
Agreed, we're not very nice to new people. :wink:

Re: Not nice

Posted: April 16th, 2009, 10:42 am
by Kolzilla41
jcmanson wrote:
Hold My Own wrote:no kidding...we really do need that ignore button...its either the eye roll or the emoticon overdose
Agreed, we're not very nice to new people. :wink:
I vote for a 5 year ban until she grows uip and uses big girl words

Posted: April 16th, 2009, 10:43 am
by jcmanson
wow, you guys are harsh

Re: Not nice

Posted: April 16th, 2009, 10:43 am
by flames1971
flamerbob wrote:
jcmanson wrote:
Hold My Own wrote:no kidding...we really do need that ignore button...its either the eye roll or the emoticon overdose
Agreed, we're not very nice to new people. :wink:
I vote for a 5 year ban until she grows uip and uses big girl words
5 yr ban?

Re: Not nice

Posted: April 16th, 2009, 10:48 am
by Hold My Own
jcmanson wrote:
Hold My Own wrote:no kidding...we really do need that ignore button...its either the eye roll or the emoticon overdose
Agreed, we're not very nice to new people. :wink:


haha, I wont even try and quote all your jabs at Burryourcurry haha...as far as she goes...it gets old after a while...example:


"Has anyone heard anything about Perez"


Her answer:

"no"

haha