I am so proud of my LU brethen giving guidance to a lost soul. I could not add anymore then what is said. Other then if you want you can exist without God, but you cannot really live a life without or apart from God. The reason it is called a new birth, a new life follows once you make that decision. Not to sound negative or turn you away, but you dont have to believe in Hell to go there, we are all born to go there. Even eternal life is destined for us, Hell is reserved for us. because of our natural birth.
When you were born say in NC and the USA, what did you have to do to be a citizen of the state and country. Go to the court house and swear an oath. NO, your birth alone made you a citizen of both. Therefore our earthly adamic birth( Gen 3, because of Adam and Eve sin in the garden, sin nature passed on to their seeds), sealed our fate that with out Jesus Christ our eternal life would be in Hell.
Now on the other hand, Heaven, when you deposit your faith into Jesus Christ, the New/2nd Adam, you have a second birth, you soul is saved and John 3:16( as BR Lakin would say, the Gospel in a nutshell) and you are therefore a new creature in Christ (II Cor 5:17).
My friend, my prayer is that you will come to know Jesus Christ not only as Lord and Saviour but the best friend you will ever have in this life(Prov 18.24).
PS I really only was going to write the first two lines, but then Someone got a hold of me and I could not quit writing
