- December 14th, 2018, 7:51 pm
#567071
My wife and I have been together for 6 years married for 4 &1/2. We have a daughter that is 20 months old. I thought we were unbreakable and never thought anything would shake our relationship. Well about 10 months ago my wife laid out her feelings and there were a lot of things she felt were wrong in the relationship. Pretty much all areas, except parenting and our friendship, she felt weren’t up to where they should have been. We’ve tried marriage counseling and she felt like there wasn’t enough of an improvement. I am very much conservative in my approach to marriage. We’ve gotten to the point where I was hit this past weekend with we are separating and we see how we feel in 6 months or we get divorced. I have no desire to date anyone or anything like that but she isn’t opposed to it. She got a job 13 hours away, I encouraged taking it because I do want her to be happy and it’s where she would want to live permanently. I’ll be following as soon as our house sells, no timeline, because I don’t want to be away from our daughter. So what are yalls thoughts? I love this women to death but this is killing me. She has told me she needs to figure out what she wants in life and doesn’t know if that includes or doesn’t include me. She also has said she always just wanted to feel like I cared. So I’m just confused and not really sure what to think about the situation. I’ve tried everything and I just have no idea what to do now. I’ve been praying but it is still incredibly difficult to handle. I’m hoping for some advice as what I should do and prayers.