- June 19th, 2014, 10:05 am
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1. Living together doesn't equal having sex. You just proved what happens when you assume things.
2. Statistics are not in the favor of those that do it and I even said it wasn't the recommended route. However, b/c we did end up going that route when he got a detail with his job down here for a month, it confirmed that we did want to be together (thus why we got engaged) and taught that there wasn't much to learn on how to live together. No one has any specifically assigned chore that's expected, things just get done as time and energy allows. There have been no fights over doing the dishes, laundry, etc. It also helped that we lived like we were practically married anything (again...take sex out of the equation...I'm talking finances, time together, etc...)
2. Statistics are not in the favor of those that do it and I even said it wasn't the recommended route. However, b/c we did end up going that route when he got a detail with his job down here for a month, it confirmed that we did want to be together (thus why we got engaged) and taught that there wasn't much to learn on how to live together. No one has any specifically assigned chore that's expected, things just get done as time and energy allows. There have been no fights over doing the dishes, laundry, etc. It also helped that we lived like we were practically married anything (again...take sex out of the equation...I'm talking finances, time together, etc...)