4everfsu wrote:Take if from one who was raised IFB, and was indoctrinated with KJV(still my choice today) women cannot wear pants to church, that doesnt bother me at all , anyone divorced must be on their way to hell, these type of teaching from a IFB who said if you don't cross your t's and dot your i's the way he does, he or you cannot have fellowship with him.
Back in the 70's-80's, my church was one of the largest fundy churches in Michigan (organ on the left, piano on the right, suit and tie or your not welcome, girls with dresses near the ankle, anything with a beat is satanic, etc.). Through some financial problems/mistakes and our pastor having a MAJOR heart attack (from which he eventually died), our weekly attendance of around 1,000 collapsed to about 200. After barely squeaking through the late 80's and early 90's, we have made HUGE changes the past 10 years. We were a BBF (baptist bible fellowship) church, but began separating ourselves from them, which branded us as liberal christians (we have drums and guitars on stage, projectors for powerpoint, contemporary music, pastors that don't always wear ties, woman that wear pants, blended families that have been married by my pastor, we primarily use the KJV but have actually used other versions in sermons, etc.). The biggest BBF church in our city has a pastor whose son got divorced. After his son straightened out his life, he wanted to get married again. This pastor called up my pastor and asked if he would do the service because he wouldn't be able to do it. Needless to say, our church is flourishing and many of the KJV only, hard fundy churches are dying off. Many of the churches that refuse change, are filled with older people and have influenced very few new members to join. I think in the next 10 years you may see a dynamic shift in Baptist circles. It may already be occurring. Just look at the explosive growth of Liberty over the past decade, and many of the hard fundy churches in my area feel they are wrong or even wicked. The churches that believe like/support Liberty are the ones that are blowing up in terms of attendance and influence in their communities. Perhaps I'm being hard on these churches, but that is the perception I have from my area of the world.