- February 11th, 2014, 2:45 pm
#447058
What are the thoughts on this bored..tired of hearing about it already???
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bballfan84 wrote:in my mind its no different than a woman being in the locker room.This is where you're totally off. It's completely different than a woman being in the locker room. You'd be attracted to the woman. You're not attracted to the gay player.
SuperJon wrote:And from the other side the gay guy may not be attracted to you so there is that.bballfan84 wrote:in my mind its no different than a woman being in the locker room.This is where you're totally off. It's completely different than a woman being in the locker room. You'd be attracted to the woman. You're not attracted to the gay player.
ATrain wrote:Wow...Purple with some actual words of wisdom.It doesn't apply to me. I'm everyone's type. It's a burden I 'bare'
Purple Haize wrote:Sorry, I'm not into old bears, especially 'bare' old bearsATrain wrote:Wow...Purple with some actual words of wisdom.It doesn't apply to me. I'm everyone's type. It's a burden I 'bare'
SuperJon wrote:kinda. i work in the IT field. we have numerous gay people at work. we a few years back started going to the gym. one of the non gay guys dressed elsewhere. he stated eventually when prompted that just as why women and men don't share lockerrooms he doesn't want a guy that might be attracted to him to see him naked and that he was uncomfortable with it (the guy doesn't dissapprove of gays either) many of those guys have partners and he was under the assumption that like his wife wouldn't want him dressing with other women, these guys' partners wouldn't want them gawking at other dudes.bballfan84 wrote:in my mind its no different than a woman being in the locker room.This is where you're totally off. It's completely different than a woman being in the locker room. You'd be attracted to the woman. You're not attracted to the gay player.
SuperJon wrote:Not different at all there is a possibility of that gay person being attracted to you even if it is just a small chance..although im pretty good lookingbballfan84 wrote:in my mind its no different than a woman being in the locker room.This is where you're totally off. It's completely different than a woman being in the locker room. You'd be attracted to the woman. You're not attracted to the gay player.
RubberMallet wrote: it holds merit in some instances...but can be delt with pretty easily.I agree with your whole post, but I think this is the big thing. It can be dealt with by a simple conversation.